Breaking Dawn...

       Someone told me once, that when you do something good, honorable, real  and nobody sees it, you must not be sad. Do things, just because you feel and  it will determinate you as a person.  Maybe, some of the decisions that people take  in life are hard and sometimes even if they want to act  with good intentions, things seem to be different. That is why , people can  not judzge other people just by one action or two in their lives. Destiny is made by choices, by insecurities , by wrong decisions  or maybe by good decisions but please act in they way you feel you must act, do not let anything that you want to do just because you feel nobody is going to show you any kind of gratitude for it. Remenber, you are who you are and you act  in the way your values show you, you must  act,  think that  the most beautiful thing of the day is  the first light  and it comes when the audience is still sleeping but it does not make it to be less beautiful or less important. It is there for people, when they decide to open their eyes and see it.

Be yourself, there isn't anything more beautiful..

"You are born and then you die, but in between you can do anything you want. It's society that creates rules for us, but you can break out of that." 

Positivism

     I would love to have a manual to live, but at the end you learn that you need to have experiences to know how to live. Sometimes you think that you won't be able to support everything and you just get tired by cicumstances, by life. But,then, you stop  just one minute and all  those little things that make you happy come really fast to your mind( a smile, a kiss,  this song that you listen in the radio and that brings you thousands memories). This is the story of millions and millions of citiziens that have to confront a new reality, a reality full of poverty , of sadness and that makes the world be understood in other way.  Although, there is  another reality in which people can believe,  there is somethig called humanity and kindness and it contributes to create" hapinness". Let's do a change in this new reality, let's help. I have no words to say all the actions of kindness that my eyes had caught during my life   but I have words enough to change my reality,  to help, to make them listen my voice, to smile because there is always a free reason to do it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                 

Mírame y te diré quién soy, intenta juzgarme y te diré quién eres..

     No se puede culpar a los demás de las decisiones que uno mismo toma, una vida de culpa no es vida. Cada día millones de personas cometen mil errores, algunos graves otros no tanto. Lo importante es asumirlo, entenderlo, ese es el mayor acto de madurez posible no refugiarse en la mentira. La mentira es siempre injustificada no hay una razón que la justifique  cuando de ocultarse bajo ella se trate.  No se  puede  vivir pensando en que  nuestra vida es así porque otros han hecho que sea así, no se puede creer en lo que no es creíble, sólo tú tienes el poder de hacer lo que quieras, estarás muchas veces condicionado, sumergido pero es ahí cuando tienes que imponerte y no ser cobarde. " Cobardía" que palabra tan sutil,  justo lo contrario a valentía.¿Qué es ser cobarde y mentiroso?.




 Aquella persona que hace lo que hace justificando o alegando batallas del pasado, el pasado siempre forma parte de nosotros pero esa parte no decide por nosotros " somos quienes somos  por nuestros valores, por nuestros pensamientos y por nuestras acciones", sobre todo por estas últimas que forman el pasado, presente y futuro, que forman eso tan diferente y maravilloso  llamado vida.

Find me

The worst part of all was losing me...

I dont know if you know who you are until  you lose who you really are.

          

My little girl

       He is not nervous, he knows that he lived  all that he could have lived. His face, his eyes, he seems to  be tired but he is not. He keeps all the energy that he had to say goodbye to them, " them" the people that he loved and love and if there is something out there that keeps his soul alive, then  it  could be said   that he will love them  forever and more.

He smiles to her, this little girl who is expecting, just waiting on the door. She is afraid but she smiles too and he tries  to take her next to him but there is  any kind of strengh in his old body.  He  wants to transmit her a last thing  of his  wisdom. He is trying to make her pay attention to him and  in a last effort he whispers her  something.  She is not sure  about who is that old man but she runs to the bed inmediately  when she heard what he said.

He gave her a coin, a simple coin. She saw the coin as a treasure and smiled to him. She recognized his face and with her hands she touched each wrinkle on it."Remenber my little girl, this coin could be important for you someday, make it important just for the meaning I guess and if someday you have many coins like this, remenber to help because happiness is made by people not by coins as I said "" Look for your place in the world, make a house to your heart  but  for your soul remenber that you are a citizen of the planet Earth"

Love you, Grandpa.

Just a woman

     She is who she is. She keeps smiling while she wants to be crying. She is strong but she did not know it. Nobody can understand her, she lives like in other dimension. She takes care of herself but at first sign she is like the most unprotected criature in life.

She does not how to react sometimes, she is not perfect and she is afraid of what will happen in life. She can wear what she wants, if she likes it.  She learnt that the most important is be loved by someone who really loves her and if this is not possible she would not want it in other way.

She could be insecure, but today she takes each step with security, she is calm and she won’t let anything to make conditional her. I do not see a girl now, I see a woman who looks for the truth, who will fight for what she wants and that will know when to give up. She is just a woman, a simple woman.

Cosas que nunca apreciamos

Some of the things, that made my day today are:

"Getting lost will help to find yourself"

"Life is about the people you meet, and the things that you create with them"






" If you are looking for the love of your life, they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love"


                Sometimes we are thinking  how to improve as persons but we totally forget that somebody could need you and we waste a precious time .. and time is short! So don't waste it!




    Even those people you thought never are going to aport something to you, they have alredy aported or  will aport. Some of those persons you will know in the way could be more or less important, some of them are going to be there forever , others just would be with you a simple period of time. Respect all because each thing is important in life even the smallest one , so choose your path , enjoy the time and the company.

Happiness

Because a picture shows more than thousands words. Have a nice day!

To be afraid

     Everybody is afraid of something. Fear can not be similar between people, maybe it has something in common but it will never be the same. Fear is very personal and different between humans. It can be simple, maybe it can't give options and we are who have to learn how to convive with it. Sometimes, "to be afraid" is made by insecurites, sometimes is just that we dont want to change while the others are changing or that we think that we never are going to get what we used to dream, and we get frozen by time, by circumstances , just using the words " I am afraid".



We are afraid of people, just because we feel that nobody can understand us, and also to disappoint someone who is important , who we love . Fear, could be created by the conscience and with it appears a new word " fault". We are scared of the things that we dont know, we are afraid of what we wanted to feel and we couldn't and of what we are feeling and we cant express. I want to have fear, I want to be afraid but the only thing I dont want is that fear controls my life . The only thing we have to do, is forget it.. leave it.. as that clothes that you someday bought and you dont use anymore. Happiness is not the abcense of fear, happiness is to learn how to control it.

Sky is still blue

    When you are down, when nothing has a mean at all and when you can not  remenber who you are, just open your eyes and see that the sky probably is grey, dark  but remenber that one day it was blue and it will be blue again. People go so fast and are so worried about life  that they totally forget "to live". How can we live? If we have  too many things to do, work, studies, children, house, bills and the most important is that sometimes we focus all in other people,  because we want the best for our children, our family, just the people we love and at the end we have a lot of  reasons to live, yes that is true! but we forget that the main reason to live is" you" , you need to be happy with your life even if you are in the worst circumstances, you just can  live once. Thus, we create a bubble in which all are problems and we start to be confuse about who we are, why we do what we do but  the answer is just in our eyes. We do what we do because we want to get better oportunities, we do things for other people just because they make us happy  ( they can apport us all those little things that make a life to be one).Sometimes it will make us forget that all those reasons create a main one, "you", you  do all of those things  because they have a mean to you, because they  make you happy and if they do not .. change your life! and remenber that choose what you chosen , do what you did doesnt determine yourself as a person, doesnt dertemine your life and the most important is  that  sky is still blue..

Feelings

 
     Dont force anyone to love you, better force them to go, because to say " hello" to the correct person you have to say" goodbye" to the wrong one. We ignore who loves us, we love who hurts us and we hurt who loves us. A person who insists to be in your life, is who really loves you.Love a person who saw you when nobody did it. We will be always for other people the correct person that they met in the wrong moment. Time will show us who is important and who isnt , who doesnt care of you, who doesnt miss you means that doesnt love you. When you're up your friends will know who you are but when you are down you will know who your friends are.Dont depend of anybody in this world, because even your own shadow disappears when you are in the dark. Learn how to apreciate what you have before time starts to show you how to do it..